The cover of Liz's book! |
Anyone who has ever owned a cat can understand the devastating feeling
of loss. As someone who has lived with cats my whole life, I have sadly lost my
fair share of furry friends. Learning how to cope with death is a natural part
of life.
Everyone deals with death differently. When my friend Liz Eastwood,
from Natural Cat Care Blog, asked if I would like to review her new book about
coping with loss, I was extremely interested in taking a look. Her book was titled Soul Comfort for Cat Lovers: Coping wisdom for heart and soul after the loss of a beloved feline.
Liz knew she wanted to write a book called “Never Say ‘Just a
Cat’” but every time she sat down to write about cats and their bond with
humans, she gravitated towards writing about recovering from grief. It’s not a
surprise, considering what she went through with the loss her cat, Bastet.
As readers learn in Liz’s book, her cat Bastet “was diagnosed with
high-grade intestinal lymphoma – the kind of cancer for which all vets give a
short-term death prognosis.” Liz
experienced great guilt because she couldn’t save Bastet from cancer.
In the third chapter, Liz offers a chart of what feelings people
experience after a death, including guilt; a feeling that is very common when
dealing with death.
When I asked Liz about how she got the inspiration for writing on this
topic – she told me that she was surprised she had so much enthusiasm for
[writing about] a rather depressing experience.
“I pondered and researched the big questions about life and death more
than I ever had before. I wanted to write the book I wished I’d had when I
needed it. I wanted it to feel like a friend, to honor how strong a
feline-human bond can be, and to really help people who were deeply suffering,”
said Liz.
There is a particular passage I wanted to share from Liz’s book,
because it really resonated with me.
“One day, not long after Bastet
died, I was driving home from work, and was struck by several powerful waves of
grief in my chest. Through my tears, I thought: How am I going to drive safely
on this freeway now?”
Beautiful Bastet - photo courtesy of Liz Eastwood. |
-- I went through something similar after finding
out we had to put our four kitten fosters to sleep because they had been
exposed to VS-Calici (Virulent Strain Feline Calici Virus) a deadly virus that put all of our present house cats at
risk (read about my experience with that, here). I remember my dad leaving a
message explaining that he was going to take the kittens to the vet to be put
down and I completely lost it. I was out at PetSmart and Target getting some
kitten supplies and I frantically drove home the longer way because the parkway was closed; ignoring the speed
limits and bawling so loud it hurt. I knew I was putting my life at danger
driving like that, but I had to get home and see the kittens one last time. The
grief I experienced after losing the four foster kittens would have been
soothed for sure, by Liz’s book.
I highly recommend Soul Comfortfor Cat Lovers to the cat community – for those who are grieving recent
losses, all the way to people who are grieving losses from years ago. This book
stirs up wonderful memories that are joyous to relive; even the sad memories
are a gentle reminder of a wonderful life. The experience of reading such a comforting
book is a wonderful way to learn how to cope with grief.
Liz self published her book, and it is available for purchase ($12.95) on Amazon here.
Liz currently lives with her two fabulous cats Phil and Joel.
Before I end a review, I always like to ask if the author has a new
book in the works. Here is what Liz said:
“All I know is [that] I love the process of writing books, so I
definitely want to do more.”
Sounds like a great book! Definitely adding it to my to-read list.
ReplyDeleteI think you would enjoy it, Amy!
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